
I thought about calling this post 'Moody 3' or 'Cranky 3' or '3 going on 13' or 'Rotten 3' or 'Independent 3' So far I am going with Nearly 3.
Gabriel is Nearly 3.
Anybody out there who has had a 3 year old should know what's coming and please there is a question at the end of this and I need answers. Apparently being almost 3 is tough. We are having some real issues like "you do it", "NO I DO IT!". He is moodier than usual and frankly it's beginning to take it's toll on me. Happy to completely FREAKING OUT in 0.01 seconds. I ask what's wrong he cries, yells, screams more for me to go away and stop bugging him, cries at me even more when I get up to walk away like he has asked. Behavior unbecoming of a gentleman: He never used to do these things and yet... He is yelling at me NO STOP and he doesn't eat like he used to and he took markers out and coloured in a book ( a dollar store sudoku puzzle book) but a book nonetheless.
This may sound like nothing to those of you with terrors but I have a good kid I just can't seem to find him lately. Is it because he's 3 (almost) and leaving my aura? Is it because of those kids at preschool? (which are all really good too in their own place and time). Is this just growing up? Is this the way I'm loosing my babe? So the real question that I want answered is this:
How do I keep from wringing his sweet soft neck? No no no what I meant to say was: How do I support his growth and not freak out back at him because he's making me mental? How do I find the strength to not use the whining tone at him when he uses it at me? How do I not mock him?
I know that mocking crying and whining is a waste and it hurts them eventually because you aren't respecting them. Not to mention lowering yourself to the level of a 3 year old. Someone needs to be the parent here.
How do I keep up with respecting him and supporting him when he's jus plain CRAZY?
I know there are a lot more questions in this blog than I was planning I just can't seem to articulate the issues. If you've been here and survived and your child has survived and still loves you then please ENLIGHTEN ME.
Oh yeah, I thought I was done and then I read over what I had written and I remembered that I also need to ask (rhetorically) how do I get him to stop asking me WHY about everything? I know, 'because I said so' and 'because that's how it is', but then what does he learn from that?